How to Find & Contact Me
I offer consultations in Cranbrook, (approximately a 1/2 hour drive from Maidstone, Tunbridge Wells and Tonbridge, and a 10 to 20 minute drive from Tenterden, Staplehurst, Hawkhurst, Goudhurst and Horsmonden). My clinic is on the Angley Road in Cranbrook, Kent. For a map click here.
You can book an initial consultation with me either by email here, or by telephone on 01580 714255. My email address is [email protected]
Lessons from a Butterfly, Author Unknown
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Lessons From a Butterfly
A man found the cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared in the cocoon; the man sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if the butterfly had gotten as far as it could, and it just could not go any further.
So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, but it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly. He expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings, and it was never able to fly.
What the man in his kindness and haste didn’t understand was that the restricting cocoon, and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening, were nature’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings, so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved it’s freedom from the cocoon.
Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If nature allowed us to go through life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been, and we would never fly.